The world
is progressively moving forward with improvements and developments in various
spheres. Man has used his wisdom from
inventing the wheel, to technology that has gone into taking him into, the moon.
But in return, he aggravated the mental capacity by stressing out the brain,
Human brain, which resulted Dr A. Abraham a dermatologist-turned Linguistic
propagator of the Neuro Linguistic Programming- series of tools for better configuration
of human emotion and communication between individuals. NLP is, a science of fragile
and professional development of human mind, reducing the stress level to the
least minimum. We are dwelling in strain and stress plagued times, in result,
we are not 'living' but merely existing, going through routines of emotional
strain. Fascinated by the panorama of opportunities available through the
practice of NLP, Dr.Abraham gave up his flourishing medical practice in UK,
returned to India to research the subject of NLP. By unleashing the subject we
enter into a hidden human potential, from which we can derive optimal benefits
evolving as an improved, more organized and productive individual in the
process. He has evolved a unique methodology based on the principle of NLP
which is the central them of the ‘Better You Program’.
So here we progress into
Dr.Abraham own words…..
What is NLP?
To put it
simply it is the user’s manual for brain, which is like a One million GB neck
top PC. It can process and store information including feelings and use that
information to make decisions and solve problems. The one major difference is
that it processes and edits this info and therefore the behavior or the outcome
results from the edited version of reality and not actuality.This amazing discovery proves that your
experience and therefore your behaviour, is the result of movies that you
produce in your mind and in changing ‘how you think’, you can change ‘what you
think’ you can dramatically transform the results you create in your life.
In human communication, the five
senses are like five doors we open to take in information.
What is particularly interesting
about human communication is that each of us seems to trust one door more than
the others. The door (sense) we prefer affects our choice of words, our
breathing, body posture, and the way we move our eyes. We tend to use the
visual (seeing), auditory (hearing) or kinaesthetic (feeling) channels more in
our communication. The olfactory (smell) and gustatory (taste) are for all
practical purpose attached to the kinaesthetic group.
State of Mind
How do we get into the proper state of
mind? NLP recognizes the importance of
physiology in changing and sustaining internal states and therefore getting
into the proper mental state is vitally important to be effective. Someone once
said, “The greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions,
and not on our circumstances.”
Through the simple yet profound
techniques like the “Circle of excellence”
that make NLP so powerful, you can eliminate unwanted habits, transform
negative emotions into positive feelings, and improve the way you see yourself,
enhance your self-esteem and become the person you always dreamt of becoming.
NLP enables to achieve rapport
almost magically. It is the ability to hold someone’s attention and create a
sense of trust by making them feel that you are like them. It means implanting
the feeling that you understand each other.
It provides us with a set of
models of the world; they are called NLP presuppositions. Some of them are
introduced below:
- The meaning of the communication is the response it elicits.
- There are no failures in communication, only outcomes.
- The map is not the territory.
- Everyone lives in their own unique model of the world.
- People always make the best choices available to them, given their unique model of the world and of the situation.
- People have all the resources necessary to make any desired change.
- There is no substitute for clean, open sensory channels.
- Resistance you get is a comment about your inflexibility as communicator; if what you are doing is not working, do something different.
- In interactions among people, the person with most flexibility and variation of behavior can control the outcome of the interaction.
- The positive worth of an individual is held constant, while the value and appropriateness of internal and/or external behavior is questioned.
- These presuppositions are not necessarily true, but are extremely powerful, as they will assist those who follow those models of the world in achieving their outcomes more easily.
How useful and practical is NLP
in our lives-NLP has a wide range of practical applications in business
(e.g. management, personnel, sales, consulting), training and development,
education, law, medicine, health, farming, writing and the arts, sports,
parenting, hobbies and personal development - anywhere communicating and
excelling are important. The more you are interested in communication, personal
effectiveness and development the more NLP has to offer. Presentation skills and
public speaking are an integral part of corporate life today. NLP
self-management techniques, language patterns and goal setting are vital to
effective speaking and peak performance.
NLP shows how, in a way that
how 'natural talent’ can be copied, adapted and acted upon to produce almost as
good a result. Maybe not their, ‘gifted ways’ yet, unique or even better than
your own. This process became known as 'modeling', and is the fundamental skill
which underpins all of the NLP tools.
"They
are expert communicators and have a real
mastery of the dynamics of change."
mastery of the dynamics of change."
Some of The Things NLP Will Enable You To Do...
·
"Fix"
phobias, unwanted
habits, and unsolvable problems (your own and others)
·
Manage
your emotional state - turn
fear into a friend and blast
away negativity or
doubt
·
Experience
your world in a whole new way - notice things you never saw before, experience things
you never felt before,
detect clues in people's language you
never heard before...
·
Improve
your ability to learn new skills (and discover how to "steal" the skills you want from
anyone who excels at anything!
·
Use
mere words to un-stick
problems, put people into a trance and get them to do your
bidding
·
Learn
how to quickly and easily be
better at golf, soccer, painting, dancing, running or anything else you
currently suck at!
·
Discover
techniques to download
other people's "success software" into your own brain
·
Understand
how people get
motivated and use this to help them learn better, solve
their own problems and understand
what you're saying
·
Learn to tell stories and use metaphors
to distract people's conscious mind while you have an intimate conversation
with their unconscious
·
Learn
and master the
hypnotic techniques of the world's greatest hypnotist - Milton
H Erickson (there's a lot more to this stuff than just the language)
·
Be
able to get rapport
with complete strangers in seconds
·
Solve problems , get agreement
and gain a reputation as the person to rely on to sort things out
·
Become
a master of language
and influence (know the effects of your communication and get
what you want)
·
Sort out ANYTHING you want in your life
(finally put an end to over-eating, procrastination, anger, road rage - or
anything else that might be bugging you!)
·
Find
more people wanting to
agree with (almost) every suggestion you make
·
Learn
some cool tricks
to impress your kids, friends or mates down the pub (you'll even learn how to
get yourself drunk without touching a drop!)
·
Become
more charismatic, cool
and confident
·
Build
a solid relationship with your self - raise
your self-esteem, self-worth and accept yourself as perfect in
every way
·
Learn
the secrets of instant
happiness (or any other emotion or feeling you want more of)
This program comes with a
statutory warning… BEWARE, YOU MAY IMPROVE YOURSELF.
My dream is to make NLP a part of the curriculum in all
educational, medical and corporate trainings. I really believe that there is
far too much technical training given at all levels without enabling people to
be the best themselves.Teaching should be re-labeled as enabling or empowering.
This is a fantastic methodology to make counseling more user-friendly as it
does not see problems but challenges and enables people to find their own
resources.
To me NLP is the DIFFERNCE that MAKES THE DIFFERENCE to
anyone.
Dr.Abraham is invited in
Universities ,Schools and Corporate
offices to conduct workshop on stress
management & NLP coaching . His Mind Masters is a centre for
research and development of behavior technology engaged in the process of evolving
better ways of human communication and wholesome behavioral development in
individuals and groups. Dr.says" We have developed a set of training program's addressing
the needs of different segments of human society: family, professionals,
corporate, educational establishments and sports institutions. MindMasters have been conducting
training programs in several business organizations, academic institutions and
social groups since 1997.The programs are structured in a modular format and
can easily be integrated into a corporate or academic situation. Hundreds of
individuals have benefitted by the MindMasters Program's.( http://www.mindmasters.org/)